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Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts
Showing posts with label holidays. Show all posts

Sunday, July 3, 2011

A Grate-Full 4th

Like many families, I enjoy spending the 4th of July outside playing games, grilling food, laughing - enjoying good times with great company, and waiting for it to get dark for the fireworks to begin.  This 4th, like many in my profession, I will be working.  I'm hoping to get home in time to watch the fireworks with my family, but that is never a guarantee.   But that doesn't mean that I have forgotten the significance of the 4th of July.  Far from it.  As a family historian, I am very aware of the contributions of my family members to this history of America through their military service.
I humbly thank and I am thankful for  -
Scott Sowieja - my own son-in-law.  He served in the US Marine Corps in Iraq.  Our lives are much better for him and for his service.  Our family knew 36 hours of hell as communications were lost with him during an intense battle in Ramadi.  We experienced a small slice of what our mothers and grandmothers before us went through.  I remember sitting in a drive through at Wendy's, my phone ringing and hearing "Hi Mom" All I could say was "Oh my God!" over and over.  Until I made the most brilliant of remark..."What do you need?"  He said a "massage" and I realized that I could do nothing from literally a half a world away, but I knew that if I could get on a plane with my massage table right then and there, I would have.  Scott came home on my birthday that year.  I count that as one of the best birthday presents I have ever received.  We love you Scott.
Mike Chapman -  my Uncle.  He enlisted in the US Army in 1934.  He fought in WW 2 and Korea.  Retiring in the late 1960's/early 1970's.   A quiet man, he never spoke much about his service but a newspaper clipping states that he served in the Rhine campaign, receiving several decorations for his brave service.  He passed away in 2009.  He is one of my hero's having braved through several bouts of recurrent cancer and even becoming a century (100 mile) bike rider when in his 70's.  He last tried to ride the Hotter -n-Hell in Wichita Falls, Texas, in 2005.  He wasn't able to make it far due to his declining health.  But he and I were able to make the start of the ride with 14,000 of our closest friends.  (The Hotter-n-Hell is held the last weekend in August each year.  Hence the name of the ride.  They have rides from 6 mile family rides to 100 miles of in your face heat and humidity.  Take your pick!)
Vollie Chapman - my Uncle and brother of Mike.  He joined the Navy, and served in the Pacific Theater during WW 2. Vollie joined the military 12 December 1942 and  died on 19 April 1945 during the Battle of Okinawa, just 6 days before Adolph Hitler and Eva Braun died via suicide in a German bunker.  He was buried in Washington State in 1949.  I have not figured out why there was a 4 year delay, but I thank the Veterans of Foreign Wars for assisting Sena, Vollies' wife, in bringing him home.
Roy G. Swanson - my maternal Grandfather.  He was the son of Swedish immigrants, who enlisted for service in the Army during WW 1.  I know that he was sent home from Europe while in France, but  not much else (yet).  He came home and led the quiet life of a farmer in Illinois, even hosting German POW's on his farm during the next World War.  I met my Grandfather once.  He was a gentle soul.  I have a picture of my Grandfather in his Army uniform.  I think about what he saw during his life,  2 World Wars,  the "Spanish Flu" pandemic, the Great Depression,  the Korean conflict and part of the Vietnam war, the assignation of both JFK.  So much history in one lifetime.
Jesse Van Chapman - my paternal Grandfather.  He enlisted for the 1st World War.  There is no record of him serving, but he enlisted for service with small children at home.  My Grandparents were married in 1910.
Valentine Martin - my G-G-Grandfather.  He entered as a 2nd Lt. during the Civil War.  He served for a short time in Company H, 41st Infantry, Georgia, CSA, also known as the "Wool Hat Boys".  He was mustered out several months later.  I have tried to find out why he only served from March to July, 1862.  A very kind Professor of History at the University of Georgia has told me that he figures that while my ancestor could read and write, perhaps not to the level needed for an officer.
Captain Charles Weatherford -  Captain Weatherford married one of my maternal G-G-Aunts, Martha Virginia Staples.  It is the brother of Martha, Daniel Webster Staples (my great-grandfather) who married the daughter of Valentine Martin, Nannie Elizabeth Martin (my great-grandmother).  The Captain also served in the Confederate Army.  He was part of the Alabama Calvary known as "Barlow's Boys".   Captain Weatherford and my Aunt are both buried in Monroe County, Alabama.  Captain Weatherford's grandfather was known as "Red Eagle".  He played an intregal part of the massacre at Fort Mims in 1813 which ironically had ties to Martha Staples' family as several family members were killed in that massacre.  It also played a role in the rise of a certain military man and future President of the United States, Andrew Jackson.
Thomas Martin, Sr. - grandfather of Valentine Martin.  Thomas served in the Revolutionary War as a scout in the Horse Militia.  The Martin farm skirted the boarder of North and South Carolina.  Thomas joined the military after a battle where "mountain men" had to march south after defeat by Lord Cornwallis.  That march led these men close to the William Martin farm during the fall of the year.   Thomas married Sabra Wilkie several months prior to the signing of the Declaration of Independence i 1776.
This is by no means a complete list of the service people in my family.  Only the ones that I have found through my research at Ancestry.com  and the history passed down to me by family members.  I am still researching my family history and I am proud of what I have uncovered.
So from my family to yours, Happy 4th of July!  I hope you have a great time making wonderful memories with family and friends.  To those of you that have served, or know of brave service men and women of whatever conflict,  you have my eternal thanks for your courage and commitment to a cause bigger than yourself.  

Saturday, October 30, 2010

Dia de los Muertos - SPA

Dia de los Muertos, the day of the Dead, is coming.  A day that asks the living to remember the dead (usually family members) with food, flowers, candles, song, and prayer.  Good times are celebrated as something wonderful in the cemetery.  Tombs are decorated with flowers and candles along with the favorite food of the deceased.  Family spends the day and night in the cemetery - its not a place to be afraid of, but to be drawn to.  Sugar skulls abound.  Skeletons are shown in art still participating in every activity of life as a reminder that we all walk with death every minute of our lives.
I really enjoyed working with the bright colors and great images that were provided by Tangie Baxter (Scrapbook Graphics ) and Sherrie JD (Deviant Scrap ).  Both of these kits are Dia de los Muertos by name...easy enough to remember!
This postcard in its full size will be printed out and made into a mailable card and sent out as part of another web site that I am a member of...PostCrossing.  I'll make another post about my experience with PostCrossing, but for right now, suffice it to say that I am enjoying sending my own creations around the world.

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas

Merry Christmas to one and all.  

Whether its Christmas, the Winter Solstice, Hanukkah, or Kwanzaa, a celebration of new beginnings and family is at hand.  For all of us, we have our own deep personal meaning to this day.  Although, I'll be the first one to admit that I love to immerse myself in the mythology and traditions of Santa Claus.  There are ideals there that are worth keeping; selflessness in the act of giving without expecting anything in return, looking for the best in others, being nice instead of naughty.  There is magic in children leaving cookies and milk out of Santa ( and hopefully carrots for the reindeer!). Carols that survive the ages are still sung, snow people are built in front yards, unless you life in the American Southwest where they are built of tumbleweeds.  Families watch "Its a Wonderful Life" , "How the Grinch stole Christmas" and "A Christmas Carol", cookies and other baked goods are made by the dozens to be shared with family and friends.  Weeks of shopping is rewarded with the "Oh thank you!  How did you know I wanted that!?"  
Charles Dickens had it right when he ended "A Christmas Carol" with the thought that Mr. Scrooge held Christmas in his heart everyday for the rest of his life.  I do believe that if we could all do those things that we labor so hard for at this time of year, that this would be a better place for all of us.   The feelings of good will towards all men would be extended despite the economy and  political battles.  Our neighbors would be more important than ideologies.  We know celebrities better than we do the people next door to us.  Maybe if we kept Christmas in our hearts as did Mr. Scrooge treating others as we wish to be treated would become the rule and not the exception. 
To all who wander here, I wish  you a very Merry Christmas, however you celebrate this day.  I wish for you love and peace in your heart and soul, for your family and friends.

Saturday, November 1, 2008

Dia de los Muertos

The honoring and rememberence of those who have gone before does not end with Halloween or Samhain.  Today is Dia de los Muertos, or Day of the Dead.  
Today people will gather in homes and in cemeteries to celebrate life.  Does that sound like a paradox?  It is.
Families will decorate alters and graveyards with colorful decorations, music will play, candles and incense will be lit.  Special food prepared and shared with both the living and the dead.   Stories told, laughter heard, the bonds of family strengthened. 
All life has a cycle.  Its something that we are all aware of, but we'd rather not think of the end of that cycle.  That cycle is sacred.  Life is sacred.  But we just don't want to think about death and how to honor that part of life. 
I work in a hospital.  I have been involved with "Code Blue" and even performed chest compressions on those folks who want everything done to keep them alive.  It can be a brutal thing to do to a person.  Sometimes I have wondered why?  Why are we doing all of this on a 90 year old person with Alzheimer's? Or terminal cancer? Or end stage liver or kidney failure?  Is it because we are more afraid of death than we are of living with the disease and its treatment no matter how hard it is to go through?  My personal opinion is that just because we have the technology doesn't mean we always need to use it.  We need to enjoy every stage of life.
I hope today that you will honor those who have gone on before you.  Remember them with love, a smile, a laugh, with joy.   

Friday, October 31, 2008

Happy Halloween!

This has got to be my favorite holiday of the whole year.  The crispness in the air, the sound of giggling children going door to door; hoards of little witches, ghosts, goblins, pirates and princesses Trick or Treating.  
I am also one who loves the traditions and mythologies behind the holidays.  That any of the old ways have survived to be part of this holiday, or any other holiday is amazing to me.  
So light the Jack-o-lanterns, let the little ones dress up and trick-or-treat (don't forget to say thank you!), enjoy the turning of the season as the days are becoming shorter, nights longer.
The comfort of the cycle of days and years continues; fall to winter, spring to summer.  Enjoy.